Rector's Reflections


                                            

                                         February 2025

This month's message comes from our new Rector, the Reverend Richard Horner


Dear all,


  Moving house, they say, is one of life's top five stressful

experiences. I’ve been moving into the Rectory in Marston Magna,

and it certainly is hard work, but a small compensation is that it

provides a rich seam of ideas about what to write in this newsletter.

  Selfishly, I started the unpacking process with my study. I got

everything into its proper place; bookshelves, desk, filing cabinet,

biscuit tin, etc. Last of all I found the box with all the electronic

stuff it, and I carefully laid out in the correct position my computer,

keyboard, screen, back-up drive, disk drive, printer and speakers.

This took some time because arranging your desk is one of the

greatest procrastinatory strategies for avoiding what you really

ought to be doing.


  Anyway, the task was eventually completed and there were all

my bits and pieces neatly laid out ready for me to use. But when I

sat down to switch on I discovered a major problem. All the

computery bits were there – but none of the wires. No power leads,

no printer cable, no USB connections. The devices sat neatly on the

desk in their allotted places, but they might as well have been on

separate planets for all the use they were. Without cables and

connections, hundreds of pounds worth of electronic equipment is

useless.


  "And you know what", said the Vicar, "that's a bit like life".

What makes our lives worthwhile is the connections between us.

I've already seen this in action in the few days since I arrived here.

Just as a computer can’t function without its connections, so a

village can’t function as a community until connections between

people have been put in place. But it doesn’t just happen. We make

strong connections between ourselves by working at it. We do it by

being interested in other people, and not just talking about ourselves

all the time. By using our imagination to put ourselves in another

person’s place and seeing the world through their eyes. By

celebrating other people’s successes and standing beside them in

their sorrows. By accepting that some people are different from

ourselves and learning to value and enjoy that difference.


  Anyway, you know all this. Since I arrived, I've been

overwhelmed by the warmth of the welcome I've received - thank

you - and I'm enjoying being drawn in to the connections that bind

us together. Please introduce yourselves to me when you see me

around in the villages. I'm hopeless at remembering faces and

names, so you'll have to do it more than once, but please persevere.

  And just before I leave this analogy all together, let me wring

one more drop from its limp form. The electronic bits and pieces

on our desks need not only the wires that connect them to each

other; they also need a cable that brings power from outside as

well.


  When God came to earth in the human form of Jesus of

Nazareth, he said, “I have come so that they may have life, and life

in all its fullness.” That is my prayer for you; and it is both my

conviction and my personal experience that the truest and greatest

fullness of life is found by those who seek to follow Jesus.

  So, I'm here to encourage and help you to do that; but also for

anyone at all who believes themselves to be on a spiritual journey,

however far from God you may think you are. Wherever you are

coming from and going to, our churches are here for you as a

source of strength; of power; of encouragement and inspiration.

  Without an external power supply no device can function for

long, whether it’s me and you, or whether it’s the computer on my

desk, so thank goodness my cables and leads eventually turned up.

  Look after yourselves - body, mind and spirit. And look after the

connections between us too.

  With all good wishes,

Richard

richardtherector@hotmail.com