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A monthly letter

July 2018

Dear All

At the end of April we had a Benefice Service at the beautiful little church at Ashington. The Church was full and we had the benefit of the Benefice Choir.

The service was on the same day as the one that was taking place in Zambia, where our bishops and people from this Diocese were visiting (Jackie Clough, who lives in Mudford, was one of them. Jackie unfortunately broke her leg whilst there but is now home. We wish her well in her recovery) to celebrate 40 years of the Link of Friendship between the two Dioceses. We used the same service as much as possible, same hymns and readings and we had our own link too.  Alex Henry from Marston Magna was volunteering there, before going to university. He wrote us a letter about his work, including helping in a baby clinic. It was read by his mother Sara and made the service very special. Alex is back now, last seen helping at the Marston Village Event, the Pimms tent I think I remember, with his family.

This month on the 14th July at 2.30 there will be an Anniversary celebration at Wells Cathedral, when guests from Zambia will be coming. At 3.45 will be an “After-party” at the Bishop's Palace. Free entry to explore the Palace and gardens, to meet Zambian guests, enjoy family games and live music including the Royal Artillery Band. (I am pleased about this, my father was Royal Artillery!)

Bring a picnic and soak up the atmosphere. There will be a charge for parking of £3. (Cheap! I have to go to Wells sometimes and parking is expensive.) If you would like to go, it would help if you registered at

At the end of July, on 29th at 10.45, at Rimpton, there will be another Benefice service with the Choir. This time to celebrate Lammas, the first fruits of the wheat harvest. We will have a loaf to use for communion and eat at the picnic afterwards. Bring your own picnic but we will provide drinks.

Rev’d Barbara

June 2018

Dear All

We have been blessed by unusually clement weather. The Royal Wedding was a wonderful, joyful service.  We will have a wedding at Mudford Church this month and I am sure this will be a day to remember.

Weddings are becoming more fashionable according to one of my friends, who has four children in their twenties, not only have two of them been married in Churches but I hear their friends have been doing the same. Unusual, as I suspect most weddings are held at wedding venues rather than churches these day.

Looking at my book which includes The Marriage Service, it gives an excellent introduction as to what a marriage is. One of life's great moments, a time of solemn commitment as well as good wishes, feasting and joy. In St John's Gospel we hear how Jesus was invited to a wedding at Cana at the very beginning of his ministry. He was asked by his mother to get the family out of an embarrassing situation when the wine ran out. He gave a sign of new beginnings as he turned water into the best wine.

Marriage is intended by God as a creative relationship, and his blessing enables husband and wife to love and support each other in good times and bad, and to share in the care and upbringing of children. It is based upon a solemn, public and life-long covenant between a man and a woman, declared and celebrated in the presence of God and before witnesses.

On their wedding day the bride and bridegroom face each other, make promises to each other and receive God's blessing. When we are invited to a wedding, we are witnesses of the marriage and express our support by our presence and prayers. This does not end on the day but we should continue in our support and encouragement for the couple in the years ahead of them.

Here are some verses from a poem in St Paul's letter to the Corinthians in the New Testament, often chosen to be read at weddings, and poetry from the Song of Solomon in the Old Testament read at The Duke and Duchess of Sussex' wedding and to be read here at Mudford.

“Love is patient, love is kind, love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way, it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”

“Set me as a seal upon your heart,

as a seal upon your arm;

for love is strong as death, passion fierce as the grave,

its flashes are flashes of fire,

a raging flame.

Many waters cannot quench love,

neither can floods drown it.

If one offered for love

all the wealth of one's house,

it would be utterly scorned.”

Rev’d Barbara

May 2018

Dear All

Lent Holy Week and Easter

We are still in Eastertide until the Ascension. I seem to be able to write of what is going to happen but not what has happened. Most important Jesus rose from the dead.

But what about Lent as we led up to Easter Day?

We held a Benefice Lent Study on the Psalms on four Tuesday evenings at Mudford Village Hall We just used the small hall, so it felt warm and we sat in a circle. It was very well attended with up to 20 people coming each week. Our four different speakers each spoke of different psalms in different ways with discussion. I think most of us found the evenings both interesting and helpful.

Thank you to our leaders and Mudford for their hospitality.

Benefice Palm Sunday

We held our first Benefice Palm Sunday Service. It began with the blessing of palm crosses at the junction of Home Farm Lane. Then a procession, following a delightful young donkey called Barwin, thanks to his owner Clare Ryall, who led him in the procession for the first time – he was too young last year. He really looked the part wearing a Middle Eastern saddle and bridle courtesy of Penny Copeland. At Church we had a reading of St Mark's story of the last week of Jesus' life, with various people reading the different parts. The Church was full including people and children from three parishes.

Benefice Maundy Thursday

This was held at Mudford. A service of the washing of feet and the institution of Holy Communion. Sadly, apart from one, only people from Mudford came.

Benefice Good Friday

We used Stations of the Cross at St Mary's Marston Magna as we have beautiful ceramic versions in the Church. Meditations came from the nuns of Turvey Abbey, Northamptonshire

I was very upset in the evening as I could not get out of Marston Magna to one of my favourite times of the year, Poetry and Music for Good Friday. All three roads out of Marston Magna were flooded. Having once got stuck in a flooded road I will never again try to cross unless I can see dry land! I hear as usual it was a very beautiful and thoughtful evening.

Benefice Holy Saturday Easter Liturgy and renewal of baptismal vows.

Another of my favourite services if not the favourite. It was the second time we had tried this but sadly only the people who had something to do or read came. The Pascal /Easter Candle was lit from a new fire symbolizing the resurrection of Christ. This candle is lit on each Sunday of Easter to remember the Resurrection. Maybe we will try this service again for a third time next year or I will have to go to St Michaels who do the service, as I did when I first came here.

Easter Day

Alleluia, Christ has risen. He is risen indeed, Alleluia.

Wonderful celebration of the most important day in the Church's Year. All very joyful occasions, with full churches, perhaps even more than Christmas.

What to come?

29th April Benefice Service at Ashington with the choir to celebrate the 40th anniversary of the Zambia-Bath & Wells Link, following more or less the same service that Bishops Peter and Ruth will be attending in Lusaka.

10th May Benefice Ascension Day Service at Chilton Cantelo 7pm and Thy Kingdom Come begins 10 Days of Prayer until Pentecost, the celebration of the coming of God's Holy Spirit.

20th May Day of Pentecost

I can still say Happy Easter to you all!

Rev'd Barbara Stanton


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